This is the question that hundreds of girls ask themselves when the relationship is going from strength to strength. I think that from my experience, I could only advise you that when you consider going to live with your partner, do it with the utmost confidence. Surely when the time has come, this has already come up in the conversation. You’ve been together for a while, and maybe your leases are coming to an end, and you both think it’s a good idea to go one step further.
In fact, at this point, there are many reasons why moving in with your partner can make complete sense. It is finally one more step in the romantic relationship. If you are thinking about doing it, I will give you some tips that helped me a lot to make this decision. Mainly you cannot make this decision impulsively, based on finances or fleeting feelings.
Think about your privacy
Having a relationship is very nice, but how comfortable you feel with your relationship to see your sweetheart in his most vulnerable moments. Living together is certainly not always passion and flowers. Sometimes the grossest habits come to the fore during this change. Are you ready to love the flaws you don’t know about your sweetie yet?
You are one of those who never tire of being with your partner
If you are a couple whose time together is reduced to once a week and they do not live together much, perhaps living together is not the best idea. The possibility of increasing engagement sounds quite tempting. But is still a risk to your relationship, especially if your time was limited to coexistence hours.
They have their own lives outside of the relationship
This is actually a good sign that you can live with someone. Attachment to a person can be the perfect ingredient for disaster. Especially if they are planning to live together. This is a good sign, as if they fight, they will have their own space to go out and relax. This will take the stress out of your relationship.
You feel comfortable around your friends and family
By this point, they should know the family members. It is important because if you are willing to take this new step with her, her family will become more involved at some point. Also knowing your friends are good, so you can live with them in the same way.
They know how to solve fights
It’s super important that they’ve already had several major fights by this point. Resolving conflict is part of a healthy relationship. It is a de facto part of life and an important tool for living together.
They have a similar vision of the future
You must discuss the plan for the future if you are going to be together. Especially because moving with you can be just one more step in the relationship, and for you, it is one more step towards a much bigger commitment. These are things that have to be discussed.
The decision to move together or continue taking it easy is up to each couple. I advise you to think about it with a cool head but above all to pay attention to your intuition. Women know very well how we are going to react to these changes, perhaps you already have the answer, and you just don’t want to look at it head on.